Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Combined Gay News Headlines (T5T-1)

DAILY AURAL — It's not a Ralph Lauren ad, or a new trailer for No Country For Old Men, or a Footlose montage. This little ditty is The Killers' new single, "A Dustland Fairytale," directed by Anthony Mandler. [h/t ArjanWrites] Permalink | Post a comment | Add to del.icio.us Tagged: Music, Music Videos, The Killers
Joining their daughter Susan Juliette (pictured) is a little brother! Thomas Beatie, who everyone knows as the "pregnant man," and wife Nancy this morning welcomed their second child through "natural birth," which is sure to send curiosity reeling since Thomas, 35, had gender reassignment surgery and says he does have sex with his wife. (Those [...]
When the Whitman-Walker Clinic decided to market its AIDS Walk Washington annual fundraising event, it thought getting the attention of moviegoers would be a smart idea. So it submitted an ad to National CineMedia, which describes itself as "the largest digital in-theatre network in North America that allows us to distribute advertisements and other content [...]
If you weren’t there than I’m sure you’re catching the buzz about how packed it was last night at Starline for QF”s weekly, gay 18+ dance party, Integration. There were so many beautiful people, men and women coming together and dancing the night away and enjoying those $3 cocktails. It was an awesome vibe and [...]
Blender Beth pointed me to this insane thread on the Mormon Apologetics Board, " Is chemical castration an option for LDS gays?, Why not reduce inappropriate sex drive?" where this is method of de-gaying is discussed -- and it's no joke.
[I]s chemical castration an option for LDS gays? I mean, if you're faithful LDS & accept that for whatever reason the Lord has put you on Earth as a "eunuch" (best case, if you can stay strong), why should you have to struggle with incessant thoughts that are not just inappropriate now, but will be inappropriate in the next life, too, only serve to pervert any desires to have children in a celestial relationship in the next life. There is zero point to having homosexual thoughts, it's not as though they're a normal part of the procreation process - they're just an annoying, perverted form of biology, entirely worthless.
And this from, heaven help us, a psychiatric social worker:
I have considered this dilema for years, but don't think much of it these days. "What is, is; what ain't ain't." Persons with sever mental illness do take medications, necessarily so! They take them with informed consent, voluntarily, and with increasingly greater success. If there are medications, which there are, that can help an alcoholic check his/her drinking should we suggest that the alcoholic not take the medications based upon the idea that it robs him of moral agency? What about the diabetic? I have seen diabetics, craving sugar, eat themselves into various stages of neuropathy. Medication can help stave off those cravings. Can we possibly suggest that because it would rob them of moral agency a diabetic should not take medications? In my view it would be immoral for those responsible not to do everything possible to get the person so sticken to take the medications that will provide the help they desperately need. If there is a chemical solution to help a chronic adulterer or a gay man acheive sexual sobriety, and worthy entrance to the temple, I AM ALL FOR IT. I don't remember questions on the temple recommend interview asking the kind of medications I take or why I have to take them. Do you?
Over at PostMormon.org, this garbage is shredded. See below the fold.
You have t o wonder how prevalent that belief is that we read above. DrW at PostMormon couldn't believe how deranged this is:
In an earlier post, I mentioned that our  pleasant little neighborhood (eight houses) was 25% gay by household.

A couple of weeks ago, I mentioned that I was looking for some used golf clubs for the 16 year old son of an unemployed single Mom in the next town. The son wanted to learn to play golf and couldn't afford clubs.

Ten minutes later, our gay neighbor knocked on my door  with a very nice set of clubs, bag and all, and asked me to give them to the boy. These have since become the boy's prize possessions.  

This and many other acts of kindness were reasons that I was shocked to read on the MADB board the other day that, had this gay individual been Mormon, he may well have had members suggesting that,  instead of living in a mutually supportive and loving relationship, he should voluntarily chemichemically castrate himself.

I kid you not.  

When I actually opened and read the post, I thought about someone suggesting that to my friend in person, and almost wished that this Mormon author could have that opportunity.

For a moment, I imagined this Mormon individual  receiving a personal lesson in gay pride that would take effect faster than any anti-gonadal chemicals.  (But it was just a fantasy. Our neighbors are in excellent physical condition, but would never cause bodily injury to another except in self defense.)

I apologize if posting this seems inappropriate. But the more I thought about this apparently acceptable Mormon viewpoint, the more upsetting it was.

I have heard some pretty silly, and even (perhaps unintentional) malevolent, suggestions for helping apostates or potential apostates to come back to the fold and live in accordance with gospel principles. But this one takes the cake.

Again, if apologies are needed for posting this bit or Mormon insight and wisdom, you have mine.

If this is too off the wall to respond to, please just ignore it.  However, I get upset just thinking about this. I makes me embarrassed to be a member of the Church, even if in name only (which I hasten to assure you is the case.)

I wanted to let this community know what kind of irrational (twisted?) thinking goes on in the minds of supposedly faithful members of the Church when it comes to what they view to be God's will.  

A Blender named Beth did this video, "Gay Civil Rights Movement is Our Civil Rights Movement," and wanted me to share it with you.  The provocative piece is worth your time.
Making this video has left me drained, speechless and sad. I am triracial: African American, Native American and various flavors of European American. Although we're triracial, my family and I primarily identify as African American. Mormonanswerman (a YouTube user) has claimed that African Americans do not like to have comparisons drawn between the GLBTQ civil rights movement and the A frican-American civil rights movement. Speaking as an African American, the comparison holds true. The history of discrimination may be be different, but the effects of hatred, bigotry and bias are the same.


That's the headline of Devona Walker's piece over at The Loop21. And it's the exact message this country is sending to gays and lesbians as nearly 70% of the public wants to repeal DADT even as half or more disapprove of civil marriage equality. Walker calls it out.
The clear majority of Americans, roughly 69 percent, believe we should reverse the "don't ask, don't tell" policy for gays in the military, despite the Supreme Court's decision to reject a challenge to it Monday. Most Americans believe gay folks should be able to fight and die for our country like anyone else. People are offering this new statistic up as some evolution of American enlightenment. But when you consider that less than half believe gays should be allowed to marry, it strikes me as hypocrisy more than anything else.

We have simply sucked our minority and poor white communities dry of human resources to fight our wars. And now, we are being forced to reconsider our own hypocrisy in the treatment of gay people, not out of equality or fairness, but out of total desperation.

...The upside, however, to reversing "don't ask, don't tell" is this: Can we really expect someone to die for a country that refuses to acknowledge her right to marry? Can we honestly expect someone to give his life for a country that is still debating whether he should be a protected class of people under pending hate crime legislation?

Allowing gays in the military is, of course, long overdue. But not simply because we need warm bodies. It just shows the inherent contradiction and hypocrisy of parceling out liberty and responsibility. We are all Americans. We should all be required to serve. We should all be allowed to marry. We should be equally protected under our laws.

The essay brings up an interesting question -- what if all of the gays and lesbians serving decided to come out of the closet? Would the Obama admin and the Pentagon allocate more funds to process and boot out all of them? It is the policy, right? Is that acceptable and necessary for our national security?

On the evebasicrights.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/champgne-glasses-graphic.jpg" title="champgne-glasses-graphic.jpg">On the eve of the 40th Anniversary of Stonewall, come join us in celebrating the achievements of the LGBT equality movement:

I'll Toast to That

Thursday, June 25th, 2009 6:00pm Charles Froelick Gallery 817 SW 2nd Avenue $40 beforehand, $50 at the door (tickets available here)

Attire: Pizazzulous

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A special thank you to our sponsors: Organic Nation Spirits Devil's Food Catering Raptor Ridge

Music by: DJ Scotty D

Ticket price qualifies for the Oregon Political Tax Credit which means you can get every penny of your ticket price back at tax time! Click here for more information on the Oregon Political Tax Credit. Questions? Call 503/222.6151

New Hampshire Governor John Lynch signed legislation that will give the legal protections of marriage to gay and lesbian couples in New Hampshire. Acting swiftly and decisively, Governor Lynch signed the legislation only hours after the legislature took the final vote on the issue. “Today is a historic day for aafter the legislature took the final vote on the issue. “Today is a historic day for all Granite Staters,” said Mo Baxley, Executive Director of the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. “We applaud Governor Lynch, Speaker Norelli and President Larsen and the leadership of the General Court for making sure that all loving, committed couples have the freedom to marry. Today, our shared values of individual liberty, freedom, and fairness have been upheld.” New Hampshire is now the 6th state in the United States that extends the freedom to marry to gay and lesbian couples. This new law will go into effect on January 1, 2010.
Come one, come all, and join Basic Rights Oregon in the 2009 Portland PRIDE Parade! We'll be meeting at 10:15am on Sunday, June 14th, and make sure you invite all of your friends to join us! To make sure we have enough stickers and accessories for all, click here to RSVP as a marcher! We're looking forward to marching with you on the 14th! copy-of-grand-marshalls.JPG Questions? Contact Andrew at 503/222.6151, x100 or andrew@basicrights.org.
New Study Links Gay Marriage Bans to Rise in HIV Rate Atlanta, GA — Bans on same-sex marriage can be tied to a rise in the rate of HIV infection, a new study by two Emory economists has found. In the first study of the impact of social tolerance levels toward gays in the United States on [...]
Tuesday’s updates include news on a few stories we’ve been following here, plus a few new ones. Tycoons, models, DADT, Politicians and more. Gay Chicken Tycoon Update: Just when you thought there wasn’t anything more to be said: Gerardus Heijne wanted ‘manslaughter deal’, Court told Gay Porn Model Murder Trial Update: Timothy John Boham, aka Marcus Allen [...]
A few years ago I visited England and one of the areas that I spent a bit of time in that left me with some vivid memories was Soho. More recently I finished reading a book about this very area; it’s called Dirty White Boy - Tales of Soho and it was written by Clayton [...]

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